Families should remember that their children's report card is different from its personality trait children report card. The main determinants of the emotions, thoughts and feelings of children in the school process are the attitudes of the parents towards the report. Attorney Psychologist Cansu Yurtseven said:

 

"With this approach in mind, some students take excitement and some fear and anxiety. Each of them gives a rationale to the rationale in the direction of their parents' attitudes. A child exposed to these attitudes will perceive the attitude as an indication of his or her own worth, and will feel desperation and unhappiness, and children need not to be criticized, but to guide them. A child who cannot feel 'unconditional acceptance' by his / her family may develop a sense of behavior and affective problems. A child who thinks that self-esteem is damaged, not understood and accepted, can develop a broken communication with their parents and direct their attention to the external environment. l

 

"IF THE EXPECTATION IS HIGH, THE WASHING BIG"

 

Psychologists Yurtseven stated that parents see their children as the current compensation of what they could not do in the past. Lar Therefore, it develops unrealistic expectations towards their children. The higher the expectation, the greater the demolition if not met. Prospects; be appropriate to the child's age, development and ability to take responsibility. It should not be forgotten that they are not projects to be realized; bir They are individuals who need to be raised with love and respect. sevgi

 

"PRAİSE THE DETERMİNATİON OF THE CHILD “

 

Psychiatrist Cansu Yurtseven, who underlined that many responsibilities to the parents for the correct and healthy evaluation of the reporter have been dropped, m One of them is; When evaluating, our focus should be on not only bad grades, but also good grades. Child's good grades because of his determination and efforts, while praising the bad grades as the parties need to be developed and the healthy planning of this process should be given support to the child, Ç he said.

 

"ANY DIFFERENT EVERY CHILD'S POTENTIAL “

 

Psychologist Cansu Yurtseven emphasized that the comparison should be avoided. “Each individual's potential, ability to do, interests and skills are different. This behavior does not ensure that the child is superior to those you compare. it only causes the self-worth to be damaged, an internal rage, and a destructive competitive sense. yalnızca

 

"HIGH INDIVIDUALS MUST BE GROWTH“

 

"The child should be encouraged to express his feelings and thoughts about his report card and the child should be listened in this process carefully," said psychologist Yurtseven.

 

Cak This attitude reflects the child's love, acceptance and value, no matter what happens to him, and this will lead to an increase in self-esteem, motivation and self-belief. The main point of child development is not to raise successful children; should be happy, peaceful, confident, self-esteem to educate high individuals. When we can achieve this, the child will be able to evaluate his pros, cons, strengths and inadequacies correctly, thus reinforcing his successful side and trying to strengthen his inadequacies. Bunu

 

"CARD NOTE İS  INDEPENDENT TO PERSONALITY"

 

Another factor that needs to be noted is the fact that the traits are independent of the personality characteristics of the notes and notes that the psychologist Yurtseven, "Low grades, children's 'unsuccessful, incompetent, lazy' does not show that, only a certain shortcomings to that course and shows the areas that need to be supported. Rather than the rhetoric like 'you're a lazy boy, you fail', 'I see that there are some shortcomings in this lesson' or 'I think that he did not give enough labor to this course. Next term we can give weight to this course' approaches should be made, çocuk he said.

 

It is a constructive attitude and a constructive attitude because it includes the sacrifice, support and guidance in the approach 'We think that this course does not give enough effort. is the most important factor in the need to reach the individual goals.

 

"THE REASONS OF LOW NOTE MUST BE INVESTIGATED"
 

Başar In addition, the factor in the child's low grade is not always the inadequacy or insufficient labor.